Today, my family and I would have been Italy-bound. Instead, we're... home-bound. We’d been saving and planning for this trip for two years. We’d put hours into pinning down places to see, what order to see them in, where to stay, and even what we’d EAT. #foodloversunite We were so excited to …
Continue Reading about Permission to Mourn Your Smallest Losses – During the COVID-19 Pandemic
I know exactly what my breaking point feels like. Probably because I get there more often than most people. Over the years, I've noticed that I always describe it the same way (and usually not in the most collected voice). "It feels like THIS," I say to my husband, while spreading …
Continue Reading about A Recovery Guide for Overexerted Highly Sensitive People
As events all around the world are being cancelled, I have ONE event I’m not sad to add to that list. Will you join me in cancelling the hardship olympics? I’m tired tonight, as I write this—one week into the U.S.'s response to Covid-19. It’s an hour after my kids have fallen …
Continue Reading about The Pitfall of Comparative Suffering & Why Empathy Is the Cure
The first time I remember really battling feelings of inadequacy was when I became a wife and mom. Before that, I’d been a fairly confident teen and young adult, and outside of my parents, I didn’t have anyone to be "enough" FOR. But once I had my own family, I found myself needing to …
Continue Reading about 37 Things You Don’t Have to Do or Be in Order to Be ENOUGH
I was walking my kids home from school the other day, engrossed in own thoughts—there in body with my children but miles away in my head. It's time to start thinking about Christmas gifts, I thought. And we still haven't pinned down what we're doing for Thanksgiving... Despite my racing mind …
Continue Reading about 21 Quick-Acting Anxiety Busters for the Holiday Season
A few nights ago, I sat among seven women—five of whom I'd never met before—and cried my "little girl cry." I first identified my "little girl cry" a year ago, while I was training to become a life coach. I had volunteered to be coached in front of my class, and the technique my trainer used on …
